off my chest

It frustrates me sometimes how certain people suddenly seem to treat me differently now that they think I look so 'hot' (their own words).  This is especially frustrating when they are family and you want to say "I'm the same person I was 45 pounds ago and I deserved this respect then!".  (and then you wonder what else they're thinking since you still have 20 pounds left to lose) But that's another rant and I'm keeping this one short....