tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-84347910933293683782024-03-12T21:57:00.338-07:00just for the health of itAn open & honest documentation of my journey for health with the goal of improving not just my own but that of others as well...physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. It isn't a destination, but it is a way of life and ongoing process.
*some posts are backdated from previous blogs or journaling entries to more accurately capture my full experience.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.comBlogger241125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-69875420762317144122015-01-06T16:06:00.001-08:002015-01-06T16:06:42.243-08:00MOVEDYou can find me (and my blog) at my new website: <a href="http://www.therealhala.com/">www.therealhala.com</a> Hope you are having a wonderful New Year! I look forward to being back to writing more regularly and actively working recovery again. :)Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-91567866352296105462014-05-25T21:37:00.002-07:002014-05-25T21:37:24.341-07:00#YesAllWomenI have some other (happier) things I've been wanting to write about but I think that'll have to wait a bit. The end of the school year gets <i>so</i> busy with kids! <br />
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Anyway... in light of the trending of the #YesAllWomen that I was just <a href="http://time.com/114043/yesallwomen-hashtag-santa-barbara-shooting/" target="_blank">reading about </a>, I wanted to chime in real quick. I'm not on twitter and I feel like it's a bit much for just a facebook post. <br />
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I am shocked at how many of the hashtags I relate to and can understand and empathize with. <br />
I don't know why it shocks me anymore.<br />
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I find the timing particularly of note as I have been working through owning my stories of rape these last few weeks.<br />
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My experiences and responses to the #YesAllWomen would be something along these lines....<br />
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- Because pornography viewing at a friends' home at a <i>very </i>early age put into my mind that rape and violence were a normal part of a relationship between a man and a woman and even something to fantasize about. <br />
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- Because a close family member, whose opinion was of high value to me, told me that it was the woman's fault if she was sexually assaulted or taken advantage of and that a husband deserved whatever he wanted from his wife.<br />
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- Because when the 8th grader put his hands under my clothes he said it was what I wanted, and I believed him even though I didn't feel that way.<br />
And then when the 11th grader (me in 10th) grabbed me and tried to force things further, he said that I was asking for it because of how I was dressed (a flesh colored shirt). I believed him too. I didn't speak up and someone thankfully showed up just in the nick of time, but I showered and threw that shirt away and haven't been able to wear a similarly colored shirt since.<br />
Because the 11th grader said I asked for it by simply showing up, being me, when he tried to rape me- with his friend watching and laughing. I will still never understand how I got away, but feel grateful that I did. Because the shame of these things and the belief that I <i>had</i> brought them upon myself, not that these boys were fully responsible for their own actions, shut my mouth and closed off a part of me for far too long. <br />
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- Because the trap of pornography teaches men (and women for that matter), good men, that this is what women want.... to be dominated or abused or even just plain used. They may be so wrapped up in the web of lies that are being fed them and reinforced through chemical responses in our brain, that they don't even recognize the inherit lie being sold.... That we are <i>all</i> individuals. That each person is a person. Male or female. Each deserves to be treated as a human being, not as an object. Not as a thing to be used. A marriage does not provide opportunity because it does not mean that the other person is your property. Marital relationships are not grounds for 'anything goes'. The idea that a woman must service her husband to fulfill his need for sex or that she must do something she feels uncomfortable with because that is the way to show love, <i>is a falsehood</i>. <br />
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- Because people can change and patterns passed through generations <i>can</i> be stopped and changed. There must be a communication. There must be a conversation had about these unhealthy attitudes we have been taught, fed, or have been propagating ourselves. There must be victims and perpetrators alike, willing to be brave and courageous and share their stories. So many people think their stories are so far beyond hope and so unique to them. So many stories, when shared, are found to have so many similar patterns to them.<br />
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- Because even rereading this I know (or maybe just fear) that some will say that it <i>was</i> my fault....that I <i>was</i> asking for whatever came to me because I'd had that reel playing through my mind from the age of six from that video I was made to watch. And the part of me that hears the voices of society and struggles with Satan's tricky words wonders if maybe they are right....maybe I secretly wanted it and put myself in those situations for some sick and twisted reasons. Because even if that <i>was</i> the case, I deserved and still deserve better. My victimization from a young age at the hands of someone else may have led to further victimization of myself <i>by</i> myself, but that doesn't make me a bad person or an object nor does it justify those boys' actions.<br />
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- The first time I went to a therapist she asked me why I was there and what I hoped to get out of being there. My answer was "I have realized that there is a pattern among the women in my family of being abused by men in their lives and I do not want to pass that on to my daughter. It stops with me."<br />
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Read some of those hashtags and tell me you don't see it too. <br />
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This is my story that I own. I won't let shame own it any longer.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-52570891126450629422014-05-21T09:37:00.001-07:002014-05-21T09:37:34.180-07:00abidingI've been working on writing out and owning my story. Not just the events of my life and things that have happened to me, but how I have <i>felt</i> about those things. Realize that I had to turn off the faucet of emotions for a lot of my life simply to cope with some of the traumatic events and stress that I felt. I didn't know better. That was just the only way to deal. Now I am experiencing those events in a new way.<br />
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There have been some unintended side effects.<br />
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Recently I had a dream that brought to mind a particular point in my life that I was struggling to face and move through. Deeply personal. It involved another person and we are at a completely different point in our relationship now so it felt wrong to disturb that. However, it became clear that owning my story needed to included owning <i>all</i> the parts of it, <i>all </i>the feelings with it, and how I feel about it still. So I approached the loved one about it. I don't know if I was expecting validation or pleas of forgiveness or just an acknowledgment that I wasn't crazy. I don't know. What I know is that when they told me they didn't remember or that they didn't see it the same way, my heart sunk. It was like being that child all over again, being told that I was over-dramatizing something serious that had happened. I began to question and hear that voice again. I have struggled with just not feeling right since. I feel sad. Evidently I was looking for something in that conversation that I did not get. When someone hurts you and doesn't acknowledge that hurt, or admit to the depth of it, it can be terribly disrupting. You can question whether what happened really happened. You might tell yourself it wasn't really a big deal after all, even when it probably was. I found myself seeking out the name of the first offender in my life and looking for some validation that they had some sort of criminal record or something after what they did to me. I believe I was looking for some validation that I wasn't crazy. <br />
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What do you do when you've been abused and mistreated by people over the years whom you will never get the acknowledgment and validation from on their end? What do you do when that involves loved ones still in your life? What about when it involves people long since out of your life? I suppose you own your story. You choose to love yourself enough to say <i>this happened</i> even if there is no other side of the story to back you up and even if the other person, the person who hurt you, doesn't seem to think they did something so bad. When you forgive them anyway, you tell yourself that it really did happen and they really did need that forgiveness even if they didn't ask for it. You are true to yourself in that way. <br />
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Still, I've been sad.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-53663023069817990972014-05-07T00:07:00.001-07:002014-05-07T08:26:28.904-07:00How Shakeology changed my life for the better, and why I'm no longer drinking it- Part TwoFor a more complete picture, please read <a href="http://just4thehealthofit.blogspot.com/2014/05/how-shakeology-changed-my-life-for.html" target="_blank">Part One</a> first.<br />
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Why would I stop drinking something so great, something I loves, something that has truly changed my health for the better? Well, that part is much harder to share. I hope that those who don't share my same understanding will read with an open mind and respect. I pray that hearts will be softened and non-judgmental. I need to share what I have learned for the sake of my own integrity and because I believe that we have a duty to share light and truth within our sphere, on matter how difficult or uncomfortable. </div>
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My reasons for discontinuing <a href="http://www.myshakeology.com/wellwithme" target="_blank">Shakeology</a> have nothing to do with the cost or the company or some other disillusionment. On the contrary, I have great feelings about Beachbody as a whole and the financial structure as a <a href="http://www.mybeachbodycoach.com/wellwithme" target="_blank">Beachbody coach</a> make the cost of little concern to me. </div>
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It has everything to do with being a <a href="http://www.mormon.org/" target="_blank">Mormon</a>. </div>
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Now, hold up.... I know the vast majority of the Beachbody coaches in my circle are also LDS. Yes, I also know that some chief officers in the company are Mormon. I realize all of these people drink and swear by Shakeology. Ok, if not all then certainly seems like all. Why do you think this is so hard to write? I know it will not be easily accepted by many. I'm not going to try and tell you other members of my faith that you shouldn't drink Shakeology either. That's your decision to make. I do ask that you keep an open mind and heart as you read my explanation and that, if you find you are able, you pray with a sincere and humble heart to know for yourself. Your answer may be different than mine. It may not. You have to be open to either possibility. </div>
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It started a few months ago. I was slowly coming to grips with acknowledging I had not involved my Heavenly Father in my weight loss journey as I knew I needed to and that the times I had seen the most success were the times I did involve Him. I felt a continual push that I needed to search the <a href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/89?lang=eng" target="_blank">Word of Wisdom</a> for answers and clues as to <i>how</i> I should be feeding my body. I had this feeling that if I would just follow the Word of Wisdom then the Lord would bless my body to function properly (and thus lose the weight it should have by now). So I began to study <a href="https://www.lds.org/topics/word-of-wisdom?lang=eng&query=word+of+wisdom" target="_blank">talks and lessons</a> in addition to <a href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/89?lang=eng" target="_blank">D&C 89</a>. I developed an idea that I should create an eating plan based on this (more on that later) and I realized the clear emphasis to really add more fruits and vegetables and reduce overall meat consumption. I had ideas and understandings like all these and more. I was still struggling to cohesively put it all together and to implement it. I felt a little like I was missing something in it. Something I just wasn't quite catching. I started praying for humility and guidance to know what to do. I knew I needed to submit my will to His more anyway, but it was scary nonetheless. </div>
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Fast forward a bit to Ward Conference. We have a phenomenal Stake President whom I greatly admire and respect. We had one of those amazing Sacrament meetings that just seemed to touch my soul and hit on things that had been on my mind. In Relief Society, our Stake President held a Q&A session. We'd had the opportunity to anonymously write him questions on a piece of paper prior to his visit. Someone had asked a question about caffeine, such as Coca-Cola, and thus the discussion on the Word of Wisdom began. </div>
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Now, before you get all up in arms or start debating different points of the Word of Wisdom and interpretations of it, just hear me out. This was the first I'd heard it explained this way and the spirit was <i>so</i> strong in that room, there could have been a light shining directly down. My friend who was sitting next to me is someone whom I consider a very spiritual person and even she sat agape saying "I never thought of it that way! It makes total sense!" I couldn't agree more and there was no questioning of the authority felt in that room. Trust me, I have tried to question and doubt it many times since as I wasn't sure I liked what it meant for me or how it felt with the beliefs I had at the time. I simply cannot. </div>
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I hope that I can explain this similar to how he did so that you can follow along and understand....</div>
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Consider the very last verse of the Word of Wisdom:</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;">"<span style="color: #2f393a; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px;">And I, the Lord, give unto them a promise, that the</span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; color: #2f393a; font-size: 10px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>a</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/89?lang=eng#" id="footnote34" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=dc-testament&bookUri=dc&chapterUri=89&noteID=21a" style="border: 0px; color: #486fae; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">destroying</a><span style="color: #2f393a; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px;"> angel shall </span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; color: #2f393a; font-size: 10px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>b</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/89?lang=eng#" id="footnote35" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=dc-testament&bookUri=dc&chapterUri=89&noteID=21b" style="border: 0px; color: #486fae; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">pass</a><span style="color: #2f393a; font-size: 16px; line-height: 22px;"> by them, as the children of Israel, and not slay them."</span></span></blockquote>
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Now this from <a href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/ot/ex/12.23.23,29?lang=eng#22" target="_blank">Exodus 12</a>:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 22px;">For the </span><span class="smallCaps" style="border: 0px; font-variant: small-caps; line-height: 22px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Lord</span><span style="line-height: 22px;"> will </span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>a</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/ot/ex/12.23.23,29?lang=eng#" id="footnote35" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=ot&bookUri=ex&chapterUri=12&noteID=23a" style="border: 0px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">pass</a><span style="line-height: 22px;"> through to smite the Egyptians; and when he seeth the blood upon the lintel, and on the two side posts, the </span><span class="smallCaps" style="border: 0px; font-variant: small-caps; line-height: 22px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Lord</span><span style="line-height: 22px;"> will </span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>b</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/ot/ex/12.23.23,29?lang=eng#" id="footnote36" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=ot&bookUri=ex&chapterUri=12&noteID=23b" style="border: 0px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">pass</a><span style="line-height: 22px;"> over the door, and will not </span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>c</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/ot/ex/12.23.23,29?lang=eng#" id="footnote37" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=ot&bookUri=ex&chapterUri=12&noteID=23c" style="border: 0px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">suffer</a><span style="line-height: 22px;"> the</span><sup class="studyNoteMarker" style="border: 0px; line-height: 1; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><marker>d</marker></sup><a class="footnote" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/ot/ex/12.23.23,29?lang=eng#" id="footnote38" rel="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/footnote?lang=eng&volumeUri=ot&bookUri=ex&chapterUri=12&noteID=23d" style="border: 0px; line-height: 22px; list-style: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">destroyer</a><span style="line-height: 22px;"> to come in unto your houses to smite </span><span class="clarityWord" style="border: 0px; line-height: 22px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">you.</span> </span></blockquote>
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Anyone who has seen the classic movie <i>The Ten Commandments</i> probably has a good visual of the 'destroying angel'. Think of this... what was significant about this? What did they do but place a mark above their doors to differentiate themselves from the others? They merely distinguished themselves as followers of the God that Moses was trying to preach about.<br />
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Now, consider this...<br />
When you travel or go somewhere new or meet a new person and ask them what they know about Mormons, what answer do you get 9 times out of 10? Something along the lines of "they don't smoke...they don't drink... they don't drink coffee...". All these things are ways that we stand out and are identified and differentiated. All these things are because of the Word of Wisdom. Do you see what I'm getting at? No, it's not like these people never die or suffer. But they were a marked people and set apart as being choice and different, just as we.<br />
Does this change how you view the Word of Wisdom? Because it sure did for me.<br />
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<b>As for the what and Shakeology...</b><br />
So of course the tea question came up. We have had it revealed and clarified that the term 'hot drink' refers to coffee and tea (you have to remember the time at which the revelation was given and the customs and verbage of the day). In fact, I really love this quote from Elder Packer from <a href="https://www.lds.org/general-conference/2000/10/ye-are-the-temple-of-god?lang=eng" target="_blank">this talk</a>:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;">"<span style="line-height: 18px;">I found in the </span><a class="no-link-style" href="http://lds.org/study/topics/word-of-wisdom?lang=eng" style="border: none !important; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none !important; vertical-align: baseline;">Word of Wisdom</a><span style="line-height: 18px;"> a principle with a promise. The principle: Care for your body; avoid habit-forming stimulants, tea, coffee, tobacco, liquor, and drugs (see </span><a class="scriptureRef" href="https://www.lds.org/scriptures/dc-testament/dc/89.3-9?lang=eng#2" style="border: 0px; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;">D&C 89:3–9</a><span style="line-height: 18px;">). Such addictive things do little more than relieve a craving which they caused in the first place."</span></span></blockquote>
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Tea is sometimes misleading because it is also a method of preparation for herbs and such. When you steep herbs to make a tea, that is different than the tea that has been referred to in the scripture. What we are to avoid consumption of is tea itself....as in the tea plant (as well as those other items listed above). We are not taught to avoid them only in certain preparations or quantities. You do not have coffee whether it is iced, an ingredient in something (I confess I love mocha ice cream but now I've got to double check those ingredients), or brewed. The same is true of tea.... of the tea plant.<br />
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Did you know that green tea and black tea are from the exact same plant? They are the same! The difference is only in the preparation of the leaf. Seriously. Check out <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Camellia_sinensis" target="_blank">this wikipedia article</a> about the plant. I do not access the internet during church, but I confess I looked this one up right then and there because I could scarcely believe it when he said they were from the same plant. <br />
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So here's the thing.... Green tea is definitely full of many health properties. I'm certainly not going to argue that. I will, however, point out that the same can be said of many of those other substances we choose to avoid when we follow the Word of Wisdom. Have you read a recent study touting the heart benefits of a daily glass of wine? So are you going to start drinking it? It seems to me that any statements about it being okay because of the health benefits or because of the difference in preparation would be rationalizing against something we have been taught. That is how it <i>feels</i> to me anyway. This is the battle I have waged within myself. 'But just look at all the health benefits I've received.' 'But look at how all those other people who are drinking it are being blessed. They must be living their lives righteously.' 'Why would God have led me to this if it wasn't okay?' Oh yah, that one was a doozy. <br />
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What I've come to the conclusion of is this... When we know better we do better. We learn line upon line and precept on precept. I can accept that I needed to experience the health benefits of Shakeology (which contains green tea if you haven't figured that one out yet) so that I could see and learn for myself how food can impact my body and how I have the power to affect it for good. Like the milk before the meat, this was how I needed to move forward in my journey. A loving Heavenly Father saw that and led me there. Sure, it's also possible that I talked myself into it because I was desperate for that challenge group (that He most definitely gave me answer that I needed to be a part of). Honestly, it doesn't really matter. What matters is that I need my Savior's help to overcome my food addiction. I need His help to live authentically and whole. I need to have my very nature changed, and only He can do that. He can only do that when I am willing to submit my will to His. I simply cannot go back on what I learned and how I felt. Believe me, I wanted to. When other Beachbody coaches got up in arms about not being able to be a successful coach if you aren't drinking Shakeology yourself (because you aren't being a product of the product then), I saw my dreams of financial freedom and having my husband solely working from home floating away. At that very same instance, however, I <i>felt</i> that the Lord would bless me with what it was that I really needed and sufficient for the life I desired. Maybe it won't happen in the way that I imagined and could see, but it will happen. Thing is, I do still absolutely love Shakeology. If they ever come out with a version that doesn't contain green tea, then you bet your dollar I'll be first in line for it. I'm not telling you whether you should or shouldn't consume it yourself. If you aren't LDS and don't share the beliefs that I do, then absolutely have it! That is definitely not a choice I can and should make for you. My job is to give information and tools so that you can decide for yourself. For all I know, you'll be given a different answer than I.... and I do still fully support the product. If you are LDS and do continue to use Shakeology, be assured that I most definitely won't judge you. I, too, plan to continually be prayerful about it. <br />
Besides, Beachbody is <i>so </i>much more than just Shakeology. It is <a href="http://www.beachbodycoach.com/esuite/home/WellWithMe?bctid=1861298193" target="_blank">phenomenal fitness programs</a> and a commitment to overall healthy living that I can absolutely stand by and promote. It is also (and you probably didn't even know this) a really fabulous <a href="http://www.myultimatereset.com/WellWithMe" target="_blank">skin care line</a> that I love and am so grateful to have found, since I'm not allergic to it! So I'll be darned if someone says I can't be successful because I choose to not consume a product containing green tea. Maybe my definition of success is different.<br />
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<br />Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-6852894182180575492014-05-06T22:38:00.000-07:002014-05-07T08:25:51.305-07:00How Shakeology changed my life for the better, and why I'm no longer drinking it- Part OneIt was a year ago exactly that I first tried <a href="http://www.myshakeology.com/wellwithme" target="_blank">Shakeology</a>. I became interested in it after seeing friends' posts about it helping with their migraines, inflammation, mood, weight loss and more. I was desperate for weight loss, yes, but I knew the accountability of a challenge group was what I needed for that. Sure, the challenge group had a requirement of needing to drink the Shakeology each day so that may have nudged me a bit more toward the commitment to it. Ultimately though, it was different reasons that really led me to try Shakeology. <br />
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<b>Reason numero uno:</b> <i>My allergies</i> were out of control. Seriously, it was terrible. I park in our driveway and it isn't far from the front door to my car in the driveway. Even still, I found myself completely unable to function during allergy season if I so much as drove my kids to school. In that short distance to the car, I found myself gobsmacked by a roaring headache and completely wiped out for the rest of the day. Then there were the times I couldn't see much through my watery eyes or that I found myself wheezing just standing outside. Yah, it was BAD. I mean, I knew that I was about as allergic as you can get to every pollen in the area (that was a fun test to take) and I'd heard that allergies generally get worse as you get older, so I guess it only stood to reason. I reached a point that I finally broke down and asked my doctor for those allergy shots he had mentioned two years prior. Guess what? I was <u>denied</u>. That's right. He said NO. Apparently, having to use Epi Pens on two separate occasions and the severity of my most recent anaphylaxis disqualified me for immunotherapy. It was just too risky. So I was left to my own devices, some nasal spray, and Mucinex D (because I'm allergic to all the other <i>allergy</i> meds). Yah, that's real. Point being, I was desperate. It stood to reason (in my mind at least) that if Shakeology helped reduce inflammation and allergies were and inflammatory response, then Shakeology should help me with my allergies. <br />
<b>Result:</b> A year later I can unequivocally say that nothing has helped my allergies more than Shakeology. I have been through two allergy seasons with barely a flinch while friends are 'dying' from their allergies. I haven't had a sinus infection either. Well, maybe one. I think. After a race it seems like. Or maybe it was right when I started eating clean and my body was getting rid of junk. I can't tell you how freeing it has been to live my life during my favorite weather seasons- fall and spring. <br />
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<b>Reason numero dos:</b> <i>Girl problems. </i>Guys, if this is TMI for you then just skip past this section. Ladies, imagine having your period twice a month. Cravings, mood swings, and all. Yep. That's what was happening to me. It had been for about a year but I was too embarrassed by the fact that I looked pregnant when I was not to get myself to the OB/GYN. I finally worked up the courage to as part of this new found commitment to my health. Test results revealed multiple ovarian cysts disrupting my cycle and confusing my hormones as well as other endometrial abnormalities. This was particularly shocking for me as prior to all this I was so regular from the day I started at 11 years old that I never even got a break after having each kid of mine. The doctor tried to convince me to go back on birth control (never my friend) or to consider discussing hysterectomy. We had to follow up in a couple of months anyway to see how they changed and determine what types of cysts they were as the reports gave varied guesses. Remember, a year I'd had mid-cycle bleeding, cramping, and a crazy obsession for chocolate.<br />
<b>Result: </b>By 6 weeks into drinking Shakeology I had no more irregular periods. No more mid-cycle bleeding. No PMS cravings at all. It became such a back part of my mind that I even found myself completely unprepared at a theme park even though it was the right time of the month. I just didn't even notice it approaching. Follow-up testing after 2 months of Shakeology showed a 100% completely normal uterus. No more ovarian cysts at all. I thought it was just a fluke but it continued. During the holidays and another time, I became inconsistent in drinking Shakeology- having it maybe 3x a week instead of every day. Sure as night and day, those mid-cycle problems came right back!<br />
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<b>Reason numero tres:</b> Energy and weight loss. Okay, what mom doesn't want this? I have 4 kids close in age <i>and</i> I have hypothyroidism and low Vitamin D levels. Seriously, some days it's like a miracle that I function at all!<br />
<b>Result:</b> After just a week of drinking Shakeology, I had the weirdest thing happen. It felt like a fog had been lifted from my brain. A fog I didn't even know I was in. Feeling that clarity gave me joy and excitement, which translated to more energy. Did the Shakeology help with weight loss? Well, yes and no. It's still a huge struggle for me. What it did help with was cravings and mood swings by giving my body such a dense dose of nutrition it desperately needed- things that could easily turn to uncontrolled and unhealthy eating. Getting a handle on those definitely helps with weight loss. It also provided a daily reminder of a commitment to health, which in turn led to better behaviors. Plus, having it be so convenient and the same cost as some Lean Cuisine or fast food, meant I would regularly forego the temptation to eat that stuff in favor of the Shakeology.... with so many more nutrients, it isn't even comparable. <br />
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All of these are just some of the reasons I have been drinking Shakeology for the past year. I'm not kidding or exaggerating. I really mean it when I say I <i>love</i> it and I noticed a real difference in how I feel with it (sidenote: my vision and thyroid have also improved over the last year). My kids love it as well and beg me for it. It serves as a nice bribery tool. My kindergartner hates to eat lunch but would never complain if I offered Shakeology. It is such a convenient meal when on the road or on vacation. It's a great pre-race meal for me and keeps my blood sugar steady through the long triathlons. <br />
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So why would I stop drinking something so great, something I love, something that has truly changed my health for the better? Well, that part is much harder to share and I will in <a href="http://just4thehealthofit.blogspot.com/2014/05/how-shakeology-changed-my-life-for_7.html" target="_blank">Part Two</a>.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-773486649675919312014-05-06T19:25:00.001-07:002014-05-06T19:25:08.439-07:00to the voice in my headHey voice. I need you to be quiet. I need to be brave. Owning a story is hard work. It is worthy and therapeutic work. It is scary work. I have some important things to share and I need to clear my head to share them in the right way. So I need you to be quiet. Yes, you...that voice telling me I'm going to be shunned or that there will be huge fallout like the last time I spoke up to a group of what I thought were like-minded people. That voice telling me it's okay, maybe even better, to just keep mum. Why stir the pot after all? Yah, I know you... I recognize you. There is good in taking a stand. There is good in having integrity. There is good in choosing something hard, when it is on the Lord's side. There may be fallout. There will be blessings. They may not be immediate but they will come eventually. He has shown me that. So voice, go away. I need to think and it's not going to be about you.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-80044795268767333022014-05-06T09:59:00.001-07:002014-05-06T09:59:25.704-07:00journeyingI've been on a bit of a spiritual journey as of late. I've been writing a lot in my journal and doing a lot of praying. It started out like this:<br />
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I was stuck.<br />
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Back up.... I was doing well and then I hit a wall. This great big wall in front of me. Gradually the sun rose over it and little by little some light crept in. As it was illuminated, I began to see how I had allowed some old behaviors and thought patterns into my life. I began to recognize the merry-go-round that I was on and that I wasn't really progressing anymore. <br />
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That's when it hit me. "I need help."<br />
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When you work your butt off and then your butt doesn't go away, you begin to think you might be broken. Even if I had been eating terribly for the past year I should have more to physically show for all of the hard work I've put in with exercise. And I <i>haven't </i>been eating terribly over the past year! At first the thoughts were so subtle I barely noticed them. "Well, you've had a mental change and you've been pretty consistent so that's good enough." "It must be my thyroid. Nevermind that I have no symptoms of the thyroid being off." "Maybe you should just do surgery. It would be easier and now you know you can be consistent at being good so it'll be fine." Then they became a bit more blatant. "You're broken." "You just don't fit in with anyone." "You're not good enough to be around these other Beachbody coaches. You're not good enough to be around anyone now because now you're a hypocrite." "You're a hypocrite for promoting health and wellness and saying people can lose weight and break their bad habits when you haven't done it yourself." "You just keep trying because you want to prove something and that's not a good reason." "It's all your fault." "You must not be 'good' enough or God would be helping you." "You did something wrong and that's why your coach isn't really helping you anymore." "Nobody likes you. Just your husband. Maybe even only him just because he's stuck with you."<br />
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And then I saw it.<br />
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So I reached out.<br />
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I contacted the therapist who had helped my husband overcome his pornography addiction. We had also seen him as a couple a few times so I had a relationship already established. I sent him an email and this is what I said: <span style="font-family: inherit;"><i>"</i><span style="background-color: white; color: #222222;"><i> I'm looking just for some help with myself. I've been trying and trying to take care of it on my own but I feel like I must be missing a piece of the puzzle or something. Billy and I are doing quite well and I am amazed at the change I see in him, even though he still insists he doesn't feel different. I am realizing that there is a small piece of trust issue that needs to be dealt with and it has to do with having my own food addiction...if I can't seem to conquer mine and keep failing then how can I trust his change? That kind of thing.</i>"</span></span><br />
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It is hard to accept that you are no more perfect than the next guy. Years of faulty thinking and behaviors do not go away as you replace them. You have to dig into why they are there in the first place. You have to be willing to go through the muck. I thought I had. Honestly. I had. But I'd only gone through some of it. What I realized when we very first met again, and several times since, is that in all of my self-work that I have done over the years, I <i>have</i> made tremendous growth and change and had a lot of healing. Having more to do doesn't discount that. What it means, though, is that those wounds and mindsets run deep. I've cleaned out the outer and even middle layers. Now it's time for what is left of it. The core-limiting beliefs that still remain. Having any remain does not invalidate what I've said or done before. It simply is there. That's okay. It's a journey. It will continue to be a journey.<br />
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I have been praying regularly for humility and I find myself humbled by the blessings I receive and the 'in your face' way that God lets me know He knows <i>me</i> and loves what I am doing. The talks in church, the articles friends post on FB, the direction conversation leads with my therapist (who, btw, is LDS and I love that we can include that as part of our discussion).... all of these things give me inspiration or serve as confirmation to things on my mind or answers to prayers. I have made some changes in the direction of some things in my life (more on that later) and I have made some hard decisions in conjunction with that. Yet, I feel very at peace with it because of these things leading to it. I have rediscovered my desire to serve and my trust in God. I am rediscovering my trust in my own self as well. It's a beautiful thing. We moved recently and my world was consumed with the chaos of that amidst running our business and a family death. I can't tell you how <i>good </i>it feels to get back into those things that should have always been there (but to not beat myself up about momentarily going into 'just survive' mode)- the self-care and scripture study, the prayer and healthy foods and journaling every morning. <br />
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I feel grateful and blessed. I am releasing things so that I can get out of my own way. I am owning my story. I am owning my weight. Only when I own it can I let it go, and that is what I am doing. I definitely believe that our bodies have memories and associate certain events with certain weights (if that's important to you) and circumstances. I've believed that for many years. I'm just now remembering and being willing to face that. Liberating. Scary. Healing. I'm lighter already. ;)Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-6571092554787071932014-04-27T08:56:00.001-07:002014-04-27T08:56:10.282-07:00back to bloggingI've been away from Blogger for so long it seems. I got so busy with <a href="http://hobbyholica.etsy.com/" target="_blank">Hobbyholica</a> that it simply went by the wayside... reading other recovery blogs and writing on my own blog. I have missed it though. I have missed the network of sisterhood (but I'm SO happy to have connected with some of you on Facebook), and I have missed the sharing of my writing. I'm going to make more of an effort to get up earlier so that I have time for writing. It soothes my soul. I recently met in person a woman who I had gotten to know online and helped with some weight loss and recovery issues. We were at a party together and someone went to introduce us when she explained that we already knew each other and went on to describe me as a gifted writer who had missed her calling in life. Wow! What a compliment! A part of me always wanted to be a writer but it has been a part of me that has been 'blocked up' for quite some time. I've felt the itch lately. A lot. I am not sure where it is going to take me, but I do believe I am tiptoeing toward it. "Run confidently in the direction of your dreams." Ok, maybe not yet. Maybe. In any case, I <i>have</i> been sharing a lot of my thoughts and such on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/heatherworthen" target="_blank">Facebook</a> over the last several months. Since I am somewhat OCD when it comes to these things, I think that I will copy and paste onto here many of my thoughts and things I have shared on FB and then backdate it to the appropriate date. I have also been keeping a journal better. I have found it incredibly helpful to my day to simply get up and write 3 pages of just whatever comes to my mind first thing in the morning. I haven't been perfect in this, of course, but I have most definitely found my days to go better when I start them off this way. It is a good thing to clear your mind first thing in the morning this way and to prepare yourself through eating something good for you, saying a prayer, and reading your scriptures and personal development. I look forward to reconnecting with this part of me and to reconnecting with so many of you beautiful spirits who are making an effort to change the world. I have some big plans in the future and a new way of where I want to take my health and wellness coaching. Something that I feel like aligns best with my passions and what God would have me do. So watch for that. ;) Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-18303050545007007372013-12-29T19:20:00.000-08:002013-12-29T19:20:22.333-08:00Quick lil recapI know that I haven't posted in <i>far</i> too long. Suffice to say, it has been an up and down few months....pretty standard for life I think. I did relapse for a bit I think but I was able to find support again and all is well. Satan tried to get into my head and make me feel helpless, but I knew that wasn't true. I know I'm not broken. I know I'm not beyond help. I know he just wants me to think that way. My coach basically stopped coaching and my challenge group had ended and I felt like I was trying to coach some others while I was in desperate need of saving myself. You can't help others and save others until you've helped yourself. <br />
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All is well now.<br />
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In fact, I'm pretty darn excited for 2014. <br />
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I'm starting up P90X3 and I'm beyond stoked to do this (30 minute) program and to complete it. I have missed the structure of a program laid out for me. I could have done better and stuck to another actual schedule after finishing ChaLean, but I used my triathlon training as an excuse. (Oh yah.... I need to post about THAT.... I finished IronGirl!!!!!!!!!!). In any case, it's going to be awesome and I'm ready to bring it.<br />
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I did the following post on FB tonight and felt it would be nice to just have the little recap here as well:<br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;">I wrote this in Feb: "Maybe these lousy results will help me be more focused and motivated with the prospect of being in a swimsuit at the end of this next month. It's either that or I feel it's pointless and doing no good and I should accept this really is the 'new me' from now on (these are the mind battles I have with myself). It occurs to me that this is how an addict feels- that their efforts</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px;"> are pointless, that they are defective human beings, that they can have a little bit of leeway and it won't make a big difference but they get upset when it adds up and does."<br /><br />Then this at the end of April: "Today was the first day of the new challenge group I committed to participating in. It will be really great to have the accountability of a group to report to each and every day. I can't tell you how positive I feel about this...about it being 'right' for me...about having all the tools I need to have this be 'it' and the last time. "<br /><br />I posted this in May: <a href="http://just4thehealthofit.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-whys-and-hows.html" rel="nofollow nofollow" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">http://<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: inline-block;"></span>just4thehealthofit.blogspot<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: inline-block;"></span>.com/2013/05/<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break" style="display: inline-block;"></span>the-whys-and-hows.html</a><br /><br />Wrote this in June: "There is a mental power to feeling physically strong... especially when you feel like people look at you and see someone who is weak. Do you do that when you see someone who is overweight? You don't know what's really in there. "<br /><br />I wrote this to myself in August: "These things do not define you, and yet they are you. Being a new and better person doesn't mean that you were a bad person before. It doesn't invalidate or lessen the worth of your self at any given stage in your life. You are simply at a different point in your life now. You are here because of what you've been through but you might have been here even without them. You might not be here without them. You could be in a different place, a much worse place, because of all this. You needn't feel bad. You are strong. You are a survivor. You have hurt and you have tried to take care of yourself and you have tried to protect yourself...all the best you could and the best you knew how with what you had at the time. You really did try your best with what you had and what you understood and where you were in your life."<br /><br />and this: "I feel so empowered when I think of this. I think how just such a short time ago I was acting upon just a glimpse of a desire. I wasn't sure that this Beachbody thing would work but I had a small enough desire to give it a change. I was afraid of admitting to and facing an eating disorder, but I had just a glimmer of a hope that the change I saw in my husband could happen with me.<br /><br />I haven't lost a ton of weight and yet I am finally able to envision that other me. The fit and healthy and unstoppable me. I see her again. I couldn't find her for a long time. I don't feel that it's like I'm some suddenly different person. I see it more as having been in a place of light for so long that my eyes had adjusted and I didn't see just how much brighter it could be.....I didn't realize not all the lights were on, until they were on. It's tasting that delicious fruit of the tree of life and wanting to share it with others because you didn't realize how much you were missing out on."<br /><br />and I haven't really written on my blog since.... BUT I feel EXACTLY THAT WAY there at the end still. THAT's how I know this works and is going to keep on working. THAT'S why I am doing what I am doing.<br /><br />You know what's funny? At a friend's suggestion, I started trying to come up with a single word to be my focus for the year. This year the word I chose was NOURISH. Man, I had no idea where that would take me. So awesome!</span><br />
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Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I started the day by joining my Stake for a 5K first thing in the morning with these two.Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-56066843396665183392013-11-25T18:40:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:41:09.470-07:00porn and adultery<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">I like this blogger. </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">"I don’t mean to concentrate only on married men. Porn is poison for everyone, married or not. And I’m not here to castigate you if you’ve stumbled. We live in a society that preys upon a man’s weaknesses, shoving sex </span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">into his face at hyper speed every day, all day, all of the time. This isn’t an excuse; just an attempt to put things into context. I won’t yell at a guy who fights a porn addiction anymore than I’d yell at a guy who fights a crack addiction. But at least the crack addict likely won’t encounter very many people (besides his dealer) who will tell him that it’s actually healthy to smoke crack. If he ventures outside of the abandoned shack where he scores his dope, he probably won’t find any respectable people who will say, “hey, crack isn’t a big deal — it’s totally natural to smoke crack, man!” In that way, the crack smoker has a leg up on the porn addict. The porn addict, by contrast, has to fight both the compulsion itself and the myriad of creeps who will try to convince him that it’s all just a bit of innocent fun.<br /><br />That’s a lie, of course. It’s not innocent. It’s not fun.<br /><br />I could cite for you the mounds of psychiatric research proving the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain. But you can do that research yourself."</span></span><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span></blockquote>
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<span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Read more: http://themattwalshblog.com/2013/11/25/married-men-your-porn-habit-is-an-adultery-habit/</span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-38362960114043262802013-11-22T18:37:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:38:34.960-07:00some things I am grateful for<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">I am grateful for exercise endorphins that remind you WHY you work out! No matter how you miss it or if you know the difference it makes for you, it can be SO hard to start again after a long hiatus (and I NEVER would have thought that it would become such a consistent thing for me that I would notice it's absence so much after just a few weeks). I am grateful to be able to work from home- both on</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; line-height: 18px;"> my health goals and from a business standpoint. I'm grateful for effective programs that get it done in 30 minutes or less because I am BUSY. I am grateful. I am grateful for music and the power it has to power you through something and make you push yourself harder than you would otherwise. I'm grateful that I finally got to kill it with Les Mills today, and that after so long 'off' I didn't feel like I was going to die...I felt as great as ever. YAY!!! I'm grateful that when you are fit and may have setbacks from injury or illness, your body recovers so much differently and so much faster than it would otherwise. I used to use that as an excuse to not push myself as hard or not even try- I didn't want to injure myself or push my asthmatic lungs too much. Now I've learned how to listen to my body better (I knew what was going to happen going into IronGirl but I chose to take that risk for the reward) and I've learned that I can care for it AND push it and make it stronger and healthier. It wasn't like starting over back at square one after several weeks of nothing. I am so grateful for that. And seriously...this 'high'....I reallllly love the Les Mills Combat 30 workout.</span></span><br />
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Here is what he wrote:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;">"<span style="line-height: 18px;">This is a comment about the internet porn opt-in idea. Not looking to start the inevitable huge discussion, just bringing up a point you might not have thought about. Also, it's going to be long, so if you don't feel like reading, it's fine to just pass it by. Facebook may not be the best political forum in the first place.</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><br style="line-height: 18px;" /></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">Sometimes people want to make burning the flag illegal. The problem is, w</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">hat is the flag? That design, stars and stripes, right? If someone gets a tattoo of the flag, is it illegal to cremate them? What about a shirt with the flag printed on it? How much of something has to be the flag design to not be burned? What if you put the wrong number of stripes or different colors, still on a rectangle cloth and then burn it?<br /><br />You run into the same problem with porn. What are you going to define it as? No nipples, no genitals, right? What about slightly transparent clothing? Really tight clothing? Body paint? What if I photoshop the nipples out? What if it's blurred? How blurry does it have to be to be blurry enough? Do art pieces featuring Venus get banned? Are naked people only allowed in paintings before 1900? And a statue of Lady Justice? What about medical reference material? Diagrams? And how about romance novel text, or written erotica? Does this person eating a phallic food provocatively count?<br /><br />The point is, you have to create some sort of entity that has the authority to make these judgement calls. More poignantly, you have to create a government entity with the power to censor things people are putting out there. Now, since you've been skimming pretty quickly, I'll write that again - You have to create a government entity with the power to censor things people are putting out there. I hope I don't have to go too much into why that's kind of a problematic concept. For reference, here's the first amendment to the constitution: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."<br /><br />Yep, Britain has started one. You might notice that what started as a porn filter also will now be blocking "violent material" "extremist and terrorist related content" "anorexia and eating disorder websites" "suicide related websites" "web forums" and "esoteric material." Now, if porn is a blurry line, you can imagine what happens with questions about violence or the line where religion becomes extremism. And the last two just give free reign to anything. (You may also recall that British laws lacked certain freedoms, which resulted in our current constitution.)<br /><br />I could go on about what I saw in China, where the government does block unhealthy information in order to protect its citizens. And this discussion in general is a can of worms with the FCC, the NSA and so on. Opting in to see what should be other people's free speech will cause you to be flagged.<br /><br />The point (and the tldr) is just that I want you, my friends and family, to understand another angle. I know that as parents, spouses, and individuals, porn may have affected your life negatively. You can still think porn is bad, but also think that a government entity that controls the information you see is bad, too."</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"></span></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">You run into the same problem with porn. What are you going to define it as? No nipples, no genitals, right? What about slightly transparent clothing? Really tight clothing? Body paint? What if I photoshop the nipples out? What if it's blurred? How blurry does it have to be to be blurry enough? Do art pieces featuring Venus get banned? Are naked people only allowed in paintings before 1900? And a statue of Lady Justice? What about medical reference material? Diagrams? And how about romance novel text, or written erotica? Does this person eating a phallic food provocatively count?</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"></span></span></blockquote>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">The point is, you have to create some sort of entity that has the authority to make these judgement calls. More poignantly, you have to create a government entity with the power to censor things people are putting out there. Now, since you've been skimming pretty quickly, I'll write that again - You have to create a government entity with the power to censor things people are putting out there. I hope I don't have to go too much into why that's kind of a problematic concept. For reference, here's the first amendment to the constitution: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances."</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">Yep, Britain has started one. You might notice that what started as a porn filter also will now be blocking "violent material" "extremist and terrorist related content" "anorexia and eating disorder websites" "suicide related websites" "web forums" and "esoteric material." Now, if porn is a blurry line, you can imagine what happens with questions about violence or the line where religion becomes extremism. And the last two just give free reign to anything. (You may also recall that British laws lacked certain freedoms, which resulted in our current constitution.)</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">I could go on about what I saw in China, where the government does block unhealthy information in order to protect its citizens. And this discussion in general is a can of worms with the FCC, the NSA and so on. Opting in to see what should be other people's free speech will cause you to be flagged.</span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; line-height: 18px;">The point (and the tldr) is just that I want you, my friends and family, to understand another angle. I know that as parents, spouses, and individuals, porn may have affected your life negatively. You can still think porn is bad, but also think that a government entity that controls the information you see is bad, too."</span></span></blockquote>
Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-20094778132580230332013-11-14T18:10:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:10:41.512-07:00starting Christmas season early<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">I see a lot of you posting critiques of Christmas infringing upon the month of November and Thanksgiving. I just want to clarify that I really love Christmas and I really love Thanksgiving, and think that it's important to be thankful ALL year long. I think the stores have gone a little bit crazy, but I totally know they do it because the longer they have that stuff out and put you in the 'holid</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">ay spirit', then the more you are likely to spend overall during the season. It's all marketing and I am totally guilty of falling victim to it. However, I want to assure you, that this is not the case with crafters and those of us who make handmade items. For us, you getting a jump on your holiday planning and shopping means a more enjoyable holiday for us. We WANT you to have that extra special item because we know that sometimes makes a person's holiday. We WANT to be able to fulfill all orders and provide as much as possible, not just because it helps us with our own bank account and holiday shopping, but because it genuinely brings us joy to create something for you. We anxiously DO want your business and we anxiously want the holiday memories with our own families, and so it becomes a balancing act. When you think and plan ahead with handmade gifts in mind, it is SO helpful. We hope that you understand that many shops, ours included, will have to put an end to accepting orders and it may even be a few weeks before Christmas (in other words, just as some of you are getting started) just to keep it all together. I hope that you understand and realize that when we post things for <a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/page.php?id=375167442563271" href="https://www.facebook.com/Hobbyholica" style="color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; text-decoration: none;">Hobbyholica</a>, we are doing so out of this spirit. We do not want to distract from the spirit of family and gratitude that can and should prevail in November. On the contrary, we do what we do because we LOVE it and feel SO GRATEFUL to have been blessing with talents that we enjoy and can share with others in a way that also blesses and benefits our family.</span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-39106070859824078132013-11-14T18:06:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:06:57.703-07:00could that be a light I see<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">Feeling rather hopeful this morning. I can breathe just fine while walking at a normal pace again. YAY! I got in with the ENT this afternoon to hopefully take care of the vertigo episodes. I looked up rental listings and the newest rentals are significantly cheaper than they were even a couple weeks ago. So much more house for less money. One in our neighborhood that is the exact same house </span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">we are currently in may be worth looking into....but there are others still zoned for the same school that are larger and cheaper.... Now we just need to figure out what would happen if we found something and wanted to move NOW, BEFORE Christmas rather than waiting until the house sold (we currently have agreed that even if it sells it will be until Jan 1 before we would have to leave and that come Jan 1 our contract will convert to month to month). Keep praying and keeping your fingers crossed that all this madness can work to be a major blessing for our family.</span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-61861220367883095692013-11-10T18:04:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:04:48.067-07:00happy birthday to my husband<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">15 years ago I started dating my best friend. We have been on quite the roller coaster since but I wouldn't have another person by my side. Thank you Billy for working hard to be the man you are today. Thank you for your humility and sacrifices. Thank you for your work and dedication to making it possible for me to stay home. Thank you for your patience and love. Thank you for teaching me things a</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">nd never judging me. Thank you for loving chances to care for me and for sometimes being the mother that I lack. Thank you for being a man that my mother loved from the beginning even when she saw your flaws. I'm so blessed that you two were able to be friends. I hope you have had a good day and feel the love you deserve to feel from myself and many around you.</span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-33444086427852979632013-11-09T18:03:00.000-08:002014-05-06T18:03:12.285-07:00angel<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; line-height: 18px;">Earlier today I sat on a bench in sheer exhaustion. Having begun to feel better, I made the mistake of moving about at a normal stride & even being quick about an errand to the store. Then, on top of that, I never got to bed at all last nig</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">ht.<br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">I found myself back to where I was a week ago. Everything is a chore. Breathing incredibly painful. My heart feeling like it is out of control and going to jump out of my chest. Plus, I was incredibly tired and debating whether or not I should even attempt to drive myself home.<br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">So I sat on the bench, trying to simply breathe without pain, trying to decide what to do, and feeling a little bit discouraged but mostly too tired to even feel anything. I must have looked pretty sad because a nice woman came up to me and told me she wanted me to have this 'pocket angel.' Isn't it beautiful? When I am weary I often long for my mother. I hadn't realized how that weighed on me until that moment as I sat there rubbing the smooth glass of the pocket angel in my hand. It reminded me of my mom's service as a TIP (Trauma Intervention Program) volunteer and the angel pins that she would give to those she served on her calls. It reminded me of visiting with my former art teacher Lisa Hinricksen just after my mom died and the little smooth pebble she gave me to keep with me and rub in my pocket to feel calm or feel her near...it is in my jewelry box right now next to my mother's rings. That also reminded me of another angel who helped me in that time of my life, my former English teacher Kellie M. Guild, who was able to ease my burden just a little bit by sharing her pain of losing a mother at a young age and who pointed me in the direction of a book that would end up providing me much comfort. She was also the reason I was in the place I was at the time I was today.<br /></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #37404e; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">I have been blessed with so many angels in my life...in different ways and at different points in time. Today an angel blessed me with a little gift that I didn't even realize I needed. Thank you.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; font-family: inherit; line-height: 18px; text-decoration: none;"><a href="http://thisisnotadiet-itsmylife.com/2012/11/23/health-is-not-a-size/" rel="nofollow nofollow" style="background-color: white; color: #3b5998; cursor: pointer; line-height: 18px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank">http://thisisnotadiet-itsmylife.com/2012/11/23/health-is-not-a-size/</a></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-74491355718996761092013-11-05T17:54:00.000-08:002014-05-06T17:55:09.788-07:00just do it<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">I let perfectionism get in my own way for SO long. It still creeps up on me from time to time. However, I have learned, and continue to learn, to recognize it for what it is. When I do that I can stop it and choose to let go. I personally believe we let </span>perfectionism<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"> be a stumbling block for most of us.</span><br style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">This picture is of my </span>worksheets<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"> I used while doing </span>ChaLean Extreme<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;">. I tracked my </span>weights<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 18px;"> an</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; display: inline; line-height: 18px;">d reps but you can see I also tracked my days missed. Now, some would have said to double up and do that missed workout...or would have pushed back their whole schedule to not ever miss one. Not me. I knew I would never stick with it that way and would constantly beat myself up for not being perfect. I chose instead to accept that I missed a day (maybe I was sick) or didn't quite finish a workout (the end of the summer the kids got more needy and I'm sure I had some other good excuse) and to move on ahead. You know what? I still had great results. I still had a change inside and out. I got to finish something and feel the pride and boost that comes from that. It was the same with the triathlon I just did. Did I do it perfectly? Absolutely not! Was I mad about the break I took to steady my breathing? Sure was. But I didn't throw in the towel. I kept going. That's what you need to do too.<br /></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; display: inline; line-height: 18px;"><br /></span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-28772523960618969022013-11-05T17:51:00.000-08:002014-05-06T17:51:32.744-07:00it's all bad<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 18px;"> “Soft-core pornography has a very negative effect on men as well. The problem with soft-core pornography is that it’s voyeurism—it teaches men to view women as objects rather than to be in relationships with women as human beings.”</span><br style="line-height: 18px;" /><br style="line-height: 18px;" /><span style="line-height: 18px;">(Gary Brooks, a psychologist who studies porn at Texas A&M, as quoted in Pamela Paul, “From Pornography to Porno to Porn: How Porn Became the Norm” (2010))</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">Another great share from Fight the New Drug</span></span>Adventures in Healinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11535749998855891106noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8434791093329368378.post-34906792074945838652013-11-04T17:48:00.000-08:002014-05-06T17:49:42.082-07:00Houston, I have a problem.<span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit;"><span style="line-height: 18px;">Something is wrong with me. I'm sitting at a dr office (for the 3rd time in a week) because my lungs are still rebelling from the cold water at IronGirl...and yet I find myself looking up triathlons for next year. </span><br style="line-height: 18px;" /><span style="line-height: 18px;">Anyone done Kokopelli? It says the water is warm for that.</span></span><br />
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